The exact opposite of All() is essentially None, but since LINQ has no None() method, you can accomplish the same result through !set.Any().
!a_list.Any(item => item.matches == true)
This will produce true if none of the items in a_list have a matches value that is true.
Another example:
names.All(item => item.StartsWith("R"))
is true if all of the items in names start with R (as you know already).
!names.Any(item => item.StartsWith("R"))
is true if none of the items in names start with R.
Based on your comment below, it sounds like you might just be looking for a way to accomplish the same result as your current code snippet, but in a different way. This should provide the same result as your current code, but without the ! in the predicate:
!a_list.Any(item => item.matches == true)
This can be further simplified to:
!a_list.Any(item => item.matches)
I'd imagine yours could be simplified as well, to this:
a_list.All(item => !item.matches)
There's rarely a good reason to explicitly compare a boolean value with true or false.