How do I force a particular instance of a C++ template to instantiate?

See title. I have a template. I want to force a particular instance of a template to instantiate. How do I do this?

More specifically, can you force an abstract template class to instantiate?

I might elaborate as I have the same question. In my case I am building a library, some of the template implementations are large and include lots of stuff, but are only generated for a couple of types. I want to compile them in the library and export all the methods, but not include the header with the code everywhere.

ie:

template<class T>
OS_EXPORT_DECL class MyTmpl
{
    T *item1;
public:
    inline T *simpleGetT() { return(item1); } /* small inline code in here */ } 
    T *doSomeReallyBigMergeStuff(T *b); // note only declaration here
};

// *** implementation source file only seen inside library

template<class T>
MyTmpl<T>::doSomeReallyBigMergeStuff(T *b)
{
    ... a really big method, but don't want to duplicate it, 
        so it is a template ...
}

I could of course reference all the methods inside the library which would force them to compile and export but the desire isn't to add un-needed code to the library like the argument formatting for the items and the code to call them etc.

????? specifically I am building the library for several versions of MSC and GCC and intel compilers.