Comparing with NULL values

CREATE TABLE `mycompare` (
  `name` varchar(100) default NULL,
  `fname` varchar(100) default NULL,
  `mname` varchar(100) default NULL,
  `lname` varchar(100) default NULL
) ENGINE=MyISAM DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8;

INSERT INTO `mycompare` VALUES('amar', 'ajay', 'shankar', NULL);
INSERT INTO `mycompare` VALUES('akbar', 'bhai', 'aslam', 'akbar');
INSERT INTO `mycompare` VALUES('anthony', 'john', 'Jim', 'Ken');
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SELECT * FROM mycompare WHERE (name = fname OR name = mname OR name = lname)
akbar   bhai    aslam   akbar

select * from mycompare where !(name = fname OR name = mname OR name = lname)
anthony john    Jim Ken

In the second select above, I expect the "amar" record as well because that name does not match with First, second or last name.