I know that deleting orphaned child objects is a common question on SO and a common problem for people new to Hibernate, and that the fairly standard answer is to ensure that you have some variation of cascade=all,delete-orphan or cascade=all-delete-orphan on the child collection.
I'd like to be able to have Hibernate detect that child collection has been emptied/removed from the parent object, and have the rows in the child table deleted from the database when the parent object is updated. For example:
Parent parent = session.get(...);
parent.getChildren().clear();
session.update(parent);
My current mapping for the Parent class looks like:
<bag name="children" cascade="all-delete-orphan">
<key column="parent_id" foreign-key="fk_parent_id"/>
<one-to-many class="Child"/>
</bag>
This works fine for me when updating an attached object, but I have a use case in which we'd like to be able to take a detached object (which has been sent to our API method by a remote client over HTTP/JSON), and pass it directly to the Hibernate Session - to allow clients to be able to manipulate the parent object in whichever way they like and have the changes persisted.
When calling session.update(parent) on my detached object, the rows in the child table are orphaned (the FK column is set to null) but not deleted. Note that when I'm calling session.update(), this is the first time the Hibernate Session is seeing this object instance - I am not re-attaching or merging the object with the Session in any other way. I'm relying on the client to pass objects whose identifiers correspond to actual objects in the database. For example, the logic in my API service method is something like this:
String jsonString = request.getParameter(...);
Parent parent = deserialize(jsonString);
session.update(pare