I'm designing a C#/NHibernate website that features a private messaging system. I would like admins to check if and when a message has been read by a user, and together highlight those messages that haven't been read yet by users. To achieve both, I found two options:

Option 1

class Message
{
    DateTime? Read;
}

where Read==null means not read yet

Option 2

class Message
{
    DateTime Read;
}

where Read==default(DateTime) (January 1st 1 A.D., 0:00:00) means not read yet.

At university, I have been taught to use the NULL value to handle all special cases, and also using the nullable type seems a good choice since it looks easier to query for unread messages by checking whether they are NULL or not.

But, using nullable types at least involves boxing and unboxing in code, with performance decreasing. On the other hand, querying for unread messages means comparing the value (but it can be indexed)

My question is

What is your suggested approach for this? What would best practices suggest in this case?