JPA/Hibernate: @ManyToOne and @OneToOne relationships tagged as FetchType.LAZY and optional = false not loading lazily on em.find()?

I have the following entity (only relevant mappings shown):

@Entity
@Table(name = "PQs")
public class PQ implements Serializable
{
    @Id
    @GeneratedValue(strategy = GenerationType.IDENTITY)
    @Column
    private Integer id;

    @Column
    private String name;

    @ManyToOne(fetch = FetchType.LAZY)                 // lazy XToOne
    @JoinColumn(name = "user_id", referencedColumnName = "person_id")
    private User user;

    @OneToOne(mappedBy = "pq", fetch = FetchType.LAZY) // lazy XToOne
    private Group group;

    @OneToOne(mappedBy = "pq", fetch = FetchType.LAZY) // lazy XToOne
    private Tendering tendering;

    ...
}

Note the comments above: there are three @XToOne relationships to other entities:

User (a SecurityIdentity sub class with a simple ID as PK, referenced by PQ representing the owner):

@Entity
@Table(name = "Users")
@DiscriminatorValue(value = "user")
public class User extends SecurityIdentity
{
    @Column
    private String name;

    @OneToMany(mappedBy = "user")
    private Set<PQ> pqs = new HashSet<PQ>();

    ...
}

Group (also a SecurityIdentity sub class with a simple ID as PK, references the PQ to represent a set of users that can interact with that PQ):

@Entity
@Table(name = "Groups")
@DiscriminatorValue(value = "group")
public class Group extends SecurityIdentity
{
    @OneToOne(fetch = FetchType.LAZY)
    @JoinColumn(name = "pq_id", referencedColumnName = "id")
    private PQ pq;

    ...
}

Tendering:

@Entity
@Table(name = "Tenderings")
public class Tendering implements Serializable
{
    @Id
    @Column(name = "pq_id", insertable = false, updatable = false)
    private Integer pqId;

    @Column(name = "external_code")
    private String externalCode;

    @OneToOne(fetch = FetchType.LAZY)
    @JoinColumn(name = "pq_id", re