My Goal: Replace the Default Cake Datepicker
I hate the default CakePHP FormHelper date-picker select elements and I'd like to use jQuery UI Datepicker widget instead. In order to degrade gracefully, I want to have a date field (enabled with the widget) and a time-picker select box constrained to 15-minute increments.
In case I explained that poorly, here is what it looks like:

My Ideal Solution
To minimize repetition, I want to put the HTML in a layout Element and process it using a Behavior function. This way I could do something like the following:
view.ctp
echo $this->element( 'datepicker', array( 'data' => $data ) );
model.php
$actsAs = array( 'Datepicker' );
function beforeSave( $options ){
$this->parseDatepickers(); //behavior function would alter $this->data
return true;
}
The Problem
Unfortunately, by the time it gets to the beforeSave (or beforeValidate) callback, the datepicker & timepicker fields have been destroyed by the model's deconstruct function. deconstruct seems to be looking for dates & times to be reported the way FormHelper creates them.
In short, it's looking for:
[date_field] => Array
(
[year] => 2011
[month] => 11
[day] => 11
[hour] => 8
[min] => 00
[meridian] => pm
)
but instead it's finding:
[date_field] => Array
(
[datepicker] => 11/11/2011
[timepicker] => 8:00 pm
)
And because it doesn't find the structure it expects, I end up with this:
[date_field] =>
I know I can have jQuery update hidden inputs with the appropriately-named fields, but this woul