I've read about 10 different questions on when and how to override GetHashCode but there's still something I don't quite get. Most implementations of GetHashCode are based on the hash codes of the fields of the object, but it's been cited that the value of GetHashCode should never change over the lifetime of the object. How does that work if the fields that it's based on are mutable? Also what if I do want dictionary lookups etc to be based on reference equality not my overridden Equals?
I'm primarily overriding Equals for the ease of unit testing my serialization code which I assume serializing and deserializing (to XML in my case) kills the reference equality so I want to make sure at least it's correct by value equality. Is this bad practice to override Equals in this case? Basically in most of the executing code I want reference equality and I always use == and I'm not overriding that. Should I just create a new method ValueEquals or something instead of overriding Equals? I used to assume that the framework always uses == and not Equals to compare things and so I thought it was safe to override Equals since it seemed to me like its purpose was for if you want to have a 2nd definition of equality that's different from the == operator. From reading several other questions though it seems that's not the case.
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It seems my intentions were unclear, what I mean is that 99% of the time I want plain old reference equality, default behavior, no surprises. For very rare cases I want to have value equality, and I want to explicitly request value equality by using .Equals instead of ==.
When I do this the compiler recommends I override GetHashCode as well, and that's how this question came up. It se