How to Understand Your Girlfriend

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Get her opinion on different issues.. Take small talk deeper with open-ended questions.. Have a discussion about boundaries.

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Get her opinion on different issues.

Step 1

Get her opinion on different issues.

2

Take small talk deeper with open-ended questions.

Step 2

Take small talk deeper with open-ended questions.

3

Have a discussion about boundaries.

Step 3

Have a discussion about boundaries.

4

Pay attention to what she complains about.

Step 4

Pay attention to what she complains about.

5

Identify her values.

Step 5

Identify her values.

6

Use your knowledge of her likes and dislikes to make her feel special.

Step 6

Use your knowledge of her likes and dislikes to make her feel special.

7

Have a conversation about sexual consent.

Step 7

Have a conversation about sexual consent.

8

Ask questions if you're not sure about something.

Step 8

Ask questions if you're not sure about something.

9

Remove distractions when you're communicating with her.

Step 9

Remove distractions when you're communicating with her.

10

Paraphrase before responding.

Step 10

Paraphrase before responding.

11

Listen for feeling statements and provide validation.

Step 11

Listen for feeling statements and provide validation.

12

Notice her body language.

Step 12

Notice her body language.

13

Pause before trying to fix her problems.

Step 13

Pause before trying to fix her problems.

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