How to Figure Out Whether or Not It's a Date

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Ask yourself if you want it to be a date.. Work up the nerve to ask. Think about the best time and way to ask.

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1

Ask yourself if you want it to be a date.

Step 1

Ask yourself if you want it to be a date.

2

Work up the nerve to ask

Step 2

Work up the nerve to ask

3

Think about the best time and way to ask.

Step 3

Think about the best time and way to ask.

4

Ask if it's a date.

Step 4

Ask if it's a date.

5

Be prepared for the answer.

Step 5

Be prepared for the answer.

6

Think about how they act around you.

Step 6

Think about how they act around you.

7

Figure out how you are meeting.

Step 7

Figure out how you are meeting.

8

Ask if there is a plan.

Step 8

Ask if there is a plan.

9

Think about when they want to see you.

Step 9

Think about when they want to see you.

10

Pay attention to what they refer to it as.

Step 10

Pay attention to what they refer to it as.

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Find out if you are going to be alone or at a group event.

Step 11

Find out if you are going to be alone or at a group event.

12

Evaluate their outfit.

Step 12

Evaluate their outfit.

13

Watch how they interact with you.

Step 13

Watch how they interact with you.

14

See if they talk about their love life.

Step 14

See if they talk about their love life.

15

Read their body language.

Step 15

Read their body language.

16

Watch if they try to pay or want to split the check.

Step 16

Watch if they try to pay or want to split the check.

17

Notice how they say goodbye.

Step 17

Notice how they say goodbye.

18

See if they call or text you after the date.

Step 18

See if they call or text you after the date.

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Check their social media posts.

Step 19

Check their social media posts.

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See if they want to hang out again.

Step 20

See if they want to hang out again.

21

Deal with rejection in a healthy way.

Step 21

Deal with rejection in a healthy way.

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