How to Know if You Are Asexual

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Notice if you don't think about sex very often.. Pay attention to how you feel when others make sexual comments.. Think about how you react to sexually suggestive material.

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Notice if you don't think about sex very often.

Step 1

Notice if you don't think about sex very often.

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Pay attention to how you feel when others make sexual comments.

Step 2

Pay attention to how you feel when others make sexual comments.

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Think about how you react to sexually suggestive material.

Step 3

Think about how you react to sexually suggestive material.

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Reflect on whether or not you enjoyed any prior sexual encounters.

Step 4

Reflect on whether or not you enjoyed any prior sexual encounters.

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Decide if you'd rather masturbate than have sex.

Step 5

Decide if you'd rather masturbate than have sex.

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Talk to your doctor if you think you may have a medical issue impacting your int

Step 6

Talk to your doctor if you think you may have a medical issue impacting your interest or experience with sex.

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Recognize the difference between romantic orientation and sexual orientation.

Step 7

Recognize the difference between romantic orientation and sexual orientation.

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Notice the difference between aesthetic, sensual, and sexual attraction.

Step 8

Notice the difference between aesthetic, sensual, and sexual attraction.

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Watch for signs that you may be gray-asexual or demisexual.

Step 9

Watch for signs that you may be gray-asexual or demisexual.

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Accept that your asexual identity is totally normal.

Step 10

Accept that your asexual identity is totally normal.

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Recognize that every asexual person is unique.

Step 11

Recognize that every asexual person is unique.

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Join a support network if you want help understanding your identity.

Step 12

Join a support network if you want help understanding your identity.

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Take as much time as you need to decide your sexual identity.

Step 13

Take as much time as you need to decide your sexual identity.

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