How to Talk in an Arranged Marriage Meeting

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Ask to meet at a place where you will feel comfortable.. Dress to impress.. Make a list of what you want to learn.

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Ask to meet at a place where you will feel comfortable.

Step 1

Ask to meet at a place where you will feel comfortable.

2

Dress to impress.

Step 2

Dress to impress.

3

Make a list of what you want to learn.

Step 3

Make a list of what you want to learn.

4

Allow the parents to take the lead in a group setting.

Step 4

Allow the parents to take the lead in a group setting.

5

Make small talk to feel like you're on a more typical date.

Step 5

Make small talk to feel like you're on a more typical date.

6

Start with low-intensity questions to get comfortable.

Step 6

Start with low-intensity questions to get comfortable.

7

Ask deeper questions if you feel a connection.

Step 7

Ask deeper questions if you feel a connection.

8

Strike a balance between questions and comments.

Step 8

Strike a balance between questions and comments.

9

Give the other person space to ask you questions.

Step 9

Give the other person space to ask you questions.

10

Save the most important questions for last.

Step 10

Save the most important questions for last.

11

Speak at a normal pace so that it doesn't feel like an interview.

Step 11

Speak at a normal pace so that it doesn't feel like an interview.

12

Take deep breaths to calm your nerves.

Step 12

Take deep breaths to calm your nerves.

13

Maintain eye contact and good posture.

Step 13

Maintain eye contact and good posture.

14

Give honest and open answers.

Step 14

Give honest and open answers.

15

Ask about the next meeting if you want to move forward.

Step 15

Ask about the next meeting if you want to move forward.

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