How to Know when a Girl Is Using You

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Examine your own feelings and expectations.. Ask yourself if she listens to you or if she just talks.. Decide if she is more interested in your social circle than in you.

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Examine your own feelings and expectations.

Step 1

Examine your own feelings and expectations.

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Ask yourself if she listens to you or if she just talks.

Step 2

Ask yourself if she listens to you or if she just talks.

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Decide if she is more interested in your social circle than in you.

Step 3

Decide if she is more interested in your social circle than in you.

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Evaluate if she enriches your life in any way.

Step 4

Evaluate if she enriches your life in any way.

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Think about whether she is using you for money.

Step 5

Think about whether she is using you for money.

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Use leading questions.

Step 6

Use leading questions.

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Talk to her about financial and other responsibilities.

Step 7

Talk to her about financial and other responsibilities.

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Ask her what she thinks the nature of your relationship is.

Step 8

Ask her what she thinks the nature of your relationship is.

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Listen to her carefully.

Step 9

Listen to her carefully.

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Share your feelings about the relationship.

Step 10

Share your feelings about the relationship.

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Ask the opinion of your close friends.

Step 11

Ask the opinion of your close friends.

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Think about whether you share any mutual friends.

Step 12

Think about whether you share any mutual friends.

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Beware of talking to mutual friends, if you have them.

Step 13

Beware of talking to mutual friends, if you have them.

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