How to Ask a Guy to Hang Out

Intermediate 5 min 11 steps 32501 views Rating: 4.8/5 Published: 2026-05-20

Find something you both enjoy doing.. Ask him in person. Text him if you're too nervous to do it in person.

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1

Find something you both enjoy doing.

Step 1

Find something you both enjoy doing.

2

Ask him in person

Step 2

Ask him in person

3

Text him if you're too nervous to do it in person.

Step 3

Text him if you're too nervous to do it in person.

4

Gauge his interest by asking an open-ended question.

Step 4

Gauge his interest by asking an open-ended question.

5

Tell him exactly what you want to do to make his decision easier.

Step 5

Tell him exactly what you want to do to make his decision easier.

6

Don't put pressure on him to say yes.

Step 6

Don't put pressure on him to say yes.

7

Accept rejection

Step 7

Accept rejection

8

Use casual, non-flirty language while asking him to hang out.

Step 8

Use casual, non-flirty language while asking him to hang out.

9

Invite mutual friends if you don't want to send the wrong message.

Step 9

Invite mutual friends if you don't want to send the wrong message.

10

Do something casual in a public place.

Step 10

Do something casual in a public place.

11

Tell him that you don't want it to be a date if he doesn't get the hint.

Step 11

Tell him that you don't want it to be a date if he doesn't get the hint.

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