How to Know Your Enemies

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Look for people who talk negatively about you in a destructive manner.. Notice who gossips about you.. Watch for people who try to block your success.

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Look for people who talk negatively about you in a destructive manner.

Step 1

Look for people who talk negatively about you in a destructive manner.

2

Notice who gossips about you.

Step 2

Notice who gossips about you.

3

Watch for people who try to block your success.

Step 3

Watch for people who try to block your success.

4

Pay attention to the person's body language.

Step 4

Pay attention to the person's body language.

5

Estimate the person's confidence levels to figure out their motivation.

Step 5

Estimate the person's confidence levels to figure out their motivation.

6

Take notes on your enemy's personality to learn how to approach them.

Step 6

Take notes on your enemy's personality to learn how to approach them.

7

Check what your enemy wears to decide how to handle them.

Step 7

Check what your enemy wears to decide how to handle them.

8

Figure out when the person is lying to call their bluff.

Step 8

Figure out when the person is lying to call their bluff.

9

Reframe how you think about your enemies' successes.

Step 9

Reframe how you think about your enemies' successes.

10

Redirect negative emotion your enemy feels towards you to the real enemy.

Step 10

Redirect negative emotion your enemy feels towards you to the real enemy.

11

Change how you interpret your enemy's behavior.

Step 11

Change how you interpret your enemy's behavior.

12

Ask the person questions about themselves to understand them better.

Step 12

Ask the person questions about themselves to understand them better.

13

Listen to your enemy's perspective.

Step 13

Listen to your enemy's perspective.

14

Show your enemy respect.

Step 14

Show your enemy respect.

15

Work on finding things in common.

Step 15

Work on finding things in common.

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