How to Date a Transgender Person

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Pick a location where your date feels comfortable.. Use the right pronouns.. Follow any etiquette that you would observe with a cisgender date.

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Pick a location where your date feels comfortable.

Step 1

Pick a location where your date feels comfortable.

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Use the right pronouns.

Step 2

Use the right pronouns.

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Follow any etiquette that you would observe with a cisgender date.

Step 3

Follow any etiquette that you would observe with a cisgender date.

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Get to know your date

Step 4

Get to know your date

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Communicate extra before you engage in physical intimacy.

Step 5

Communicate extra before you engage in physical intimacy.

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Apologize and move on if you make a mistake.

Step 6

Apologize and move on if you make a mistake.

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Don't compliment them on their gender presentation.

Step 7

Don't compliment them on their gender presentation.

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Wait to discuss topics that are too personal.

Step 8

Wait to discuss topics that are too personal.

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Avoid asking about their pre-transition life unless they bring it up.

Step 9

Avoid asking about their pre-transition life unless they bring it up.

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Remember that your date does not need you to reassure them.

Step 10

Remember that your date does not need you to reassure them.

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Identify your date clearly when you introduce them.

Step 11

Identify your date clearly when you introduce them.

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Correct people who use the wrong pronoun, in most cases.

Step 12

Correct people who use the wrong pronoun, in most cases.

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Don't out them as transgender.

Step 13

Don't out them as transgender.

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Don't give other cisgender people information about them that is private.

Step 14

Don't give other cisgender people information about them that is private.

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Take any sign of suicidal behaviors in your partner seriously.

Step 15

Take any sign of suicidal behaviors in your partner seriously.

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Take care of yourself.

Step 16

Take care of yourself.

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Define your own identity at your leisure.

Step 17

Define your own identity at your leisure.

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Connect with other people who love trans people.

Step 18

Connect with other people who love trans people.

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