How to Help Shy Kids Make Friends

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Talk with your child to see if they want your help with making friends.. Teach your kid about the importance of friendships.. Set up one-on-one playdates.

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Talk with your child to see if they want your help with making friends.

Step 1

Talk with your child to see if they want your help with making friends.

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Teach your kid about the importance of friendships.

Step 2

Teach your kid about the importance of friendships.

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Set up one-on-one playdates.

Step 3

Set up one-on-one playdates.

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Find younger children for your kid to play with.

Step 4

Find younger children for your kid to play with.

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Find after-school activities that your kid enjoys which require teamwork.

Step 5

Find after-school activities that your kid enjoys which require teamwork.

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Give your child chances to build social skills in public settings.

Step 6

Give your child chances to build social skills in public settings.

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Help to model polite and outgoing behavior.

Step 7

Help to model polite and outgoing behavior.

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Avoid focusing on the negative things in your kid's life.

Step 8

Avoid focusing on the negative things in your kid's life.

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Provide encouragement and reassurance to your kid.

Step 9

Provide encouragement and reassurance to your kid.

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Avoid labeling shyness as negative.

Step 10

Avoid labeling shyness as negative.

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Notice situations when the kid seems more shy.

Step 11

Notice situations when the kid seems more shy.

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Avoid forcing them to be extroverted.

Step 12

Avoid forcing them to be extroverted.

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Determine when your shy kid may need extra support.

Step 13

Determine when your shy kid may need extra support.

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