How to Tell if Your Guy Friend Sees You As Just "One of the Guys"

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Listen to how he addresses you.. Pay attention to what he talks about.. Keep track of how many times he starts conversations.

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Listen to how he addresses you.

Step 1

Listen to how he addresses you.

2

Pay attention to what he talks about.

Step 2

Pay attention to what he talks about.

3

Keep track of how many times he starts conversations.

Step 3

Keep track of how many times he starts conversations.

4

Note if he asks you about other men.

Step 4

Note if he asks you about other men.

5

Consider how often you hang out alone.

Step 5

Consider how often you hang out alone.

6

Try initiating physical contact.

Step 6

Try initiating physical contact.

7

Gauge how much distance he puts between you.

Step 7

Gauge how much distance he puts between you.

8

Observe how he sits.

Step 8

Observe how he sits.

9

Note his eye contact.

Step 9

Note his eye contact.

10

Watch his gestures.

Step 10

Watch his gestures.

11

Hang out alone together.

Step 11

Hang out alone together.

12

Do normal activities.

Step 12

Do normal activities.

13

Ask him if you can talk.

Step 13

Ask him if you can talk.

14

Reassure him that you are good friends no matter what.

Step 14

Reassure him that you are good friends no matter what.

15

Ask him how he feels about your relationship.

Step 15

Ask him how he feels about your relationship.

16

Give him plenty of time to respond.

Step 16

Give him plenty of time to respond.

17

Be understanding of his response.

Step 17

Be understanding of his response.

18

Let him know how you feel if he confesses.

Step 18

Let him know how you feel if he confesses.

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