How to Get Your Child to Obey You

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Identify and explain clear, precise family rules.. Set consistent family rules with any co-parents.. Introduce no more than 2 to 3 new rules at a time to younger children.

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Identify and explain clear, precise family rules.

Step 1

Identify and explain clear, precise family rules.

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Set consistent family rules with any co-parents.

Step 2

Set consistent family rules with any co-parents.

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Introduce no more than 2 to 3 new rules at a time to younger children.

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Introduce no more than 2 to 3 new rules at a time to younger children.

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Let natural consequences teach your child lessons, within reason.

Step 4

Let natural consequences teach your child lessons, within reason.

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Come up with reasonable consequences, if necessary.

Step 5

Come up with reasonable consequences, if necessary.

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Offer your kids choices when you warn them about consequences.

Step 6

Offer your kids choices when you warn them about consequences.

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Deliver immediate, reasonable, related consequences.

Step 7

Deliver immediate, reasonable, related consequences.

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Make eye contact and ask for a response when you provide instructions.

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Make eye contact and ask for a response when you provide instructions.

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Praise good behavior as much as possible.

Step 9

Praise good behavior as much as possible.

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Give short, simple commands instead of long lectures.

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Give short, simple commands instead of long lectures.

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Try turning chores into games.

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Try turning chores into games.

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Express empathy instead of yelling at them to stop crying.

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Express empathy instead of yelling at them to stop crying.

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Set clear goals and rules, but negotiate the details with them.

Step 13

Set clear goals and rules, but negotiate the details with them.

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Model positive behavior and follow your own rules.

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Model positive behavior and follow your own rules.

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Praise your teenager when they do something well.

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Praise your teenager when they do something well.

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Make natural, logical consequences your core disciplinary tools.

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Make natural, logical consequences your core disciplinary tools.

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Ensure your teen eats and gets enough sleep.

Step 17

Ensure your teen eats and gets enough sleep.

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