How to Talk to Parents So They'll Understand

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Write your goals and plan ahead.. Choose the parent most likely to understand.. Write a letter or email if a discussion will be heated.

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Write your goals and plan ahead.

Step 1

Write your goals and plan ahead.

2

Choose the parent most likely to understand.

Step 2

Choose the parent most likely to understand.

3

Write a letter or email if a discussion will be heated.

Step 3

Write a letter or email if a discussion will be heated.

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Schedule a time to talk.

Step 4

Schedule a time to talk.

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Choose a time when your parents are free.

Step 5

Choose a time when your parents are free.

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Talk when you're calm.

Step 6

Talk when you're calm.

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Rely on someone you trust for help or advice.

Step 7

Rely on someone you trust for help or advice.

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Start with a statement that's to the point.

Step 8

Start with a statement that's to the point.

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Be honest about how you feel.

Step 9

Be honest about how you feel.

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Use "I" statements.

Step 10

Use "I" statements.

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Talk about their concerns.

Step 11

Talk about their concerns.

12

Keep a calm tone.

Step 12

Keep a calm tone.

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Come up with some solutions.

Step 13

Come up with some solutions.

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Give them some time.

Step 14

Give them some time.

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Earn their trust.

Step 15

Earn their trust.

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Talk about good things, too.

Step 16

Talk about good things, too.

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Find ways to compromise.

Step 17

Find ways to compromise.

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Do your part at home.

Step 18

Do your part at home.

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Follow up.

Step 19

Follow up.

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