How to Deal with a Toddler Saying 'No'

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Offer a couple of choices when you can.. Create options even if there technically aren't any.. Let your child know you hear them.

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Offer a couple of choices when you can.

Step 1

Offer a couple of choices when you can.

2

Create options even if there technically aren't any.

Step 2

Create options even if there technically aren't any.

3

Let your child know you hear them.

Step 3

Let your child know you hear them.

4

Provide a basis for your requests.

Step 4

Provide a basis for your requests.

5

Avoid using "no" as much as you can.

Step 5

Avoid using "no" as much as you can.

6

Teach your child other phrases to use.

Step 6

Teach your child other phrases to use.

7

Use positive reinforcement for good behavior.

Step 7

Use positive reinforcement for good behavior.

8

Make your child think that you need their help to do something.

Step 8

Make your child think that you need their help to do something.

9

Put your foot down when you need to.

Step 9

Put your foot down when you need to.

10

Try using reverse psychology.

Step 10

Try using reverse psychology.

11

Take a deep breath and stay calm.

Step 11

Take a deep breath and stay calm.

12

Realize this phase won't last forever.

Step 12

Realize this phase won't last forever.

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