How to Understand Boys

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Pay attention to how he dresses around you to see if he puts in effort.. Notice if he touches and brushes against you when you're around him.. Listen to see if he remembers details about you.

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Pay attention to how he dresses around you to see if he puts in effort.

Step 1

Pay attention to how he dresses around you to see if he puts in effort.

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Notice if he touches and brushes against you when you're around him.

Step 2

Notice if he touches and brushes against you when you're around him.

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Listen to see if he remembers details about you.

Step 3

Listen to see if he remembers details about you.

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Watch for signs he's jealous of other guys, like asking if you have a boyfriend.

Step 4

Watch for signs he's jealous of other guys, like asking if you have a boyfriend.

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Assume he's unavailable if he talks about other girls or doesn't want to date.

Step 5

Assume he's unavailable if he talks about other girls or doesn't want to date.

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Pick a time when he's not already engaged in an activity.

Step 6

Pick a time when he's not already engaged in an activity.

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Bring up a subject he's interested in to break the ice.

Step 7

Bring up a subject he's interested in to break the ice.

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Ask him for advice to learn more about him.

Step 8

Ask him for advice to learn more about him.

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Use open-ended questions to keep the conversation going.

Step 9

Use open-ended questions to keep the conversation going.

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Don't be afraid to reach out to him first via social media or text.

Step 10

Don't be afraid to reach out to him first via social media or text.

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Give him time to open up to you.

Step 11

Give him time to open up to you.

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Invite him to do something active with you.

Step 12

Invite him to do something active with you.

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Ask him to play video games with him if he's a gamer.

Step 13

Ask him to play video games with him if he's a gamer.

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Respect the close bond he has with his friends when you're together.

Step 14

Respect the close bond he has with his friends when you're together.

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Be direct instead of hinting around about what you want.

Step 15

Be direct instead of hinting around about what you want.

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Don't believe stereotypes about boys, like that they're tough.

Step 16

Don't believe stereotypes about boys, like that they're tough.

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