How to Stop Being a Jealous Girlfriend

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Try to pinpoint the root of your jealousy.. Note if you feel jealous when your partner is around other females.. Ask yourself if you get jealous when your partner talks about their ex.

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Try to pinpoint the root of your jealousy.

Step 1

Try to pinpoint the root of your jealousy.

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Note if you feel jealous when your partner is around other females.

Step 2

Note if you feel jealous when your partner is around other females.

3

Ask yourself if you get jealous when your partner talks about their ex.

Step 3

Ask yourself if you get jealous when your partner talks about their ex.

4

Reconsider your long-held beliefs about relationships.

Step 4

Reconsider your long-held beliefs about relationships.

5

Speak to a counsellor or therapist to help resolve your jealous feelings.

Step 5

Speak to a counsellor or therapist to help resolve your jealous feelings.

6

Be honest about your jealousy with your partner.

Step 6

Be honest about your jealousy with your partner.

7

Tell your partner what you need from your relationship with them.

Step 7

Tell your partner what you need from your relationship with them.

8

Use "I" statements to communicate clearly with your partner.

Step 8

Use "I" statements to communicate clearly with your partner.

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Practice active listening to show your partner empathy and understanding.

Step 9

Practice active listening to show your partner empathy and understanding.

10

Work out compromises that make you both feel valued.

Step 10

Work out compromises that make you both feel valued.

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Don't snoop on your partner to quell your jealousy.

Step 11

Don't snoop on your partner to quell your jealousy.

12

Don't make social media the center of your relationship.

Step 12

Don't make social media the center of your relationship.

13

Remind yourself of your best qualities to boost your self-esteem.

Step 13

Remind yourself of your best qualities to boost your self-esteem.

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Enjoy your alone time.

Step 14

Enjoy your alone time.

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Pursue new interests and hobbies on your own.

Step 15

Pursue new interests and hobbies on your own.

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Avoid comparing yourself to your partner's former girlfriends.

Step 16

Avoid comparing yourself to your partner's former girlfriends.

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