How to Find out if Your Crush Likes Someone Else

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Watch your crush's eyes to see who they're following.. Observe who they're sitting by or initiating conversations with.. Take note of your crush getting nervous or excited around a specific person.

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1

Watch your crush's eyes to see who they're following.

Step 1

Watch your crush's eyes to see who they're following.

2

Observe who they're sitting by or initiating conversations with.

Step 2

Observe who they're sitting by or initiating conversations with.

3

Take note of your crush getting nervous or excited around a specific person.

Step 3

Take note of your crush getting nervous or excited around a specific person.

4

Check out how much time they're on their phone.

Step 4

Check out how much time they're on their phone.

5

Pay attention to changes in their personal style.

Step 5

Pay attention to changes in their personal style.

6

Watch for changes in how moody your crush is when you spend time together.

Step 6

Watch for changes in how moody your crush is when you spend time together.

7

Take note of how your crush acts when they see you in person.

Step 7

Take note of how your crush acts when they see you in person.

8

Pay attention to canceled plans as a sign your crush is into someone else.

Step 8

Pay attention to canceled plans as a sign your crush is into someone else.

9

Observe how quickly (or slowly) they respond to your messages.

Step 9

Observe how quickly (or slowly) they respond to your messages.

10

Listen to how often they name-drop during your conversations.

Step 10

Listen to how often they name-drop during your conversations.

11

Check out their social media to see what they're up to.

Step 11

Check out their social media to see what they're up to.

12

Listen to rumors you hear about your crush and their love life.

Step 12

Listen to rumors you hear about your crush and their love life.

13

Get input from your friends about the situation.

Step 13

Get input from your friends about the situation.

14

Talk to your crush's friend discreetly to see if they know any information.

Step 14

Talk to your crush's friend discreetly to see if they know any information.

15

Ask your crush

Step 15

Ask your crush

16

Avoid blaming yourself or thinking that you're not good enough.

Step 16

Avoid blaming yourself or thinking that you're not good enough.

17

Remember that your crush is allowed to like and be with other people.

Step 17

Remember that your crush is allowed to like and be with other people.

18

Give yourself time and space to get over your crush.

Step 18

Give yourself time and space to get over your crush.

19

Focus on yourself, your friends, and the things you enjoy doing.

Step 19

Focus on yourself, your friends, and the things you enjoy doing.

20

Confide in a friend to talk out your feelings.

Step 20

Confide in a friend to talk out your feelings.

21

Let yourself like someone else (or no one at all).

Step 21

Let yourself like someone else (or no one at all).

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