How to Deal with Homophobic Family

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Talk your relatives about their homophobia.. Help your family understand what homophobia is.. Participate in a civil discussion with close-minded relatives.

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1

Talk your relatives about their homophobia.

Step 1

Talk your relatives about their homophobia.

2

Help your family understand what homophobia is.

Step 2

Help your family understand what homophobia is.

3

Participate in a civil discussion with close-minded relatives.

Step 3

Participate in a civil discussion with close-minded relatives.

4

Call out your family if they use homophobic insults.

Step 4

Call out your family if they use homophobic insults.

5

Come out only if you feel safe and supported.

Step 5

Come out only if you feel safe and supported.

6

Don't come out if you don't feel safe doing so.

Step 6

Don't come out if you don't feel safe doing so.

7

Plan how your coming out conversation will go.

Step 7

Plan how your coming out conversation will go.

8

Confide in trusted friends and relatives.

Step 8

Confide in trusted friends and relatives.

9

Hint to your relatives and see how they react.

Step 9

Hint to your relatives and see how they react.

10

Come out

Step 10

Come out

11

Give your family time to adjust to the news.

Step 11

Give your family time to adjust to the news.

12

Don't take their initial reactions personally.

Step 12

Don't take their initial reactions personally.

13

Create a back-up plan for yourself if you don't want to stay at home.

Step 13

Create a back-up plan for yourself if you don't want to stay at home.

14

Set some money aside so you can move out.

Step 14

Set some money aside so you can move out.

15

Lean on your friends if things get tough.

Step 15

Lean on your friends if things get tough.

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Contact a charity or community group if you need a place to stay.

Step 16

Contact a charity or community group if you need a place to stay.

17

Meet with a counselor if your family is hurtful or abusive.

Step 17

Meet with a counselor if your family is hurtful or abusive.

18

Call the police if you're being physically abused.

Step 18

Call the police if you're being physically abused.

19

Dial a support line if you need a listening ear.

Step 19

Dial a support line if you need a listening ear.

20

Join an online support group for encouragement.

Step 20

Join an online support group for encouragement.

21

Chat with other LGBTQ individuals in your life.

Step 21

Chat with other LGBTQ individuals in your life.

22

Spend time around more open-minded family members.

Step 22

Spend time around more open-minded family members.

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