How to Get Along with New Step Siblings

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Calm down before you approach your step-siblings.. Address issues in a direct, assertive way.. Listen to your step-sibling's side.

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Calm down before you approach your step-siblings.

Step 1

Calm down before you approach your step-siblings.

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Address issues in a direct, assertive way.

Step 2

Address issues in a direct, assertive way.

3

Listen to your step-sibling's side.

Step 3

Listen to your step-sibling's side.

4

Explain what you would like to happen in the future.

Step 4

Explain what you would like to happen in the future.

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Avoid getting physical or engaging in name-calling.

Step 5

Avoid getting physical or engaging in name-calling.

6

Focus on yourself.

Step 6

Focus on yourself.

7

Accept your biological parent's new relationship to your step-siblings.

Step 7

Accept your biological parent's new relationship to your step-siblings.

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Do things as a family.

Step 8

Do things as a family.

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Try to get to know your new siblings one-on-one.

Step 9

Try to get to know your new siblings one-on-one.

10

Ask to have your own room.

Step 10

Ask to have your own room.

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Talk about sharing.

Step 11

Talk about sharing.

12

Ask for some time alone.

Step 12

Ask for some time alone.

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Ask to be included in the process.

Step 13

Ask to be included in the process.

14

Initiate family meetings.

Step 14

Initiate family meetings.

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Accept your new "normal.

Step 15

Accept your new "normal.

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Find support systems.

Step 16

Find support systems.

17

Keep your connection to your biological family strong.

Step 17

Keep your connection to your biological family strong.

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