How to Love Your Family

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Show appreciation with words and actions when family members deserve it.. Apologize clearly and honestly whenever you mess up.. Focus on the present instead of getting trapped in the past.

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Show appreciation with words and actions when family members deserve it.

Step 1

Show appreciation with words and actions when family members deserve it.

2

Apologize clearly and honestly whenever you mess up.

Step 2

Apologize clearly and honestly whenever you mess up.

3

Focus on the present instead of getting trapped in the past.

Step 3

Focus on the present instead of getting trapped in the past.

4

Treat each family member as the unique individual they are.

Step 4

Treat each family member as the unique individual they are.

5

Be consistent in how you interact with your family members.

Step 5

Be consistent in how you interact with your family members.

6

Make the effort to spend quality time together as a family.

Step 6

Make the effort to spend quality time together as a family.

7

Write down for yourself why loving your family is difficult but important.

Step 7

Write down for yourself why loving your family is difficult but important.

8

Listen to family members and try to understand their perspectives.

Step 8

Listen to family members and try to understand their perspectives.

9

Take several deep breaths when you're having trouble staying calm.

Step 9

Take several deep breaths when you're having trouble staying calm.

10

Explain your concerns in a non-confrontational way.

Step 10

Explain your concerns in a non-confrontational way.

11

Agree to limits on topics that frequently cause conflict.

Step 11

Agree to limits on topics that frequently cause conflict.

12

List your wants and needs and ask each family member to do the same.

Step 12

List your wants and needs and ask each family member to do the same.

13

Treat your own wellbeing as essential, not selfish.

Step 13

Treat your own wellbeing as essential, not selfish.

14

Detach from a toxic relationship as an alternative to a full exit.

Step 14

Detach from a toxic relationship as an alternative to a full exit.

15

End the relationship if your own wellbeing is seriously endangered.

Step 15

End the relationship if your own wellbeing is seriously endangered.

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