How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows

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Get clearance from your officiant.. Agree that you and your significant other will be writing your own vows.. Take the time to reflect on your love.

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1

Get clearance from your officiant.

Step 1

Get clearance from your officiant.

2

Agree that you and your significant other will be writing your own vows.

Step 2

Agree that you and your significant other will be writing your own vows.

3

Take the time to reflect on your love.

Step 3

Take the time to reflect on your love.

4

Make a vow plan with your future spouse.

Step 4

Make a vow plan with your future spouse.

5

Write what you love about your beloved.

Step 5

Write what you love about your beloved.

6

Mention key memories in your relationship.

Step 6

Mention key memories in your relationship.

7

Write down the promises you want to make to your future spouse.

Step 7

Write down the promises you want to make to your future spouse.

8

Remember to be yourself.

Step 8

Remember to be yourself.

9

Avoid clichés.

Step 9

Avoid clichés.

10

Get feedback.

Step 10

Get feedback.

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Prepare to say your vows.

Step 11

Prepare to say your vows.

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