How to Figure Out if Your Friend Is Worth Keeping
Reflect on the friendship over the past few days and weeks.. Make a two-column list.. Fill in your pros and cons.
Steps
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Reflect on the friendship over the past few days and weeks.
Reflect on the friendship over the past few days and weeks.
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Make a two-column list.
Make a two-column list.
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Fill in your pros and cons.
Fill in your pros and cons.
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Review your pros and cons.
Review your pros and cons.
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Consider whether your friend listens and values your opinions.
Consider whether your friend listens and values your opinions.
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Question if your friend respects your personal boundaries.
Question if your friend respects your personal boundaries.
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Decide if you feel good after interacting with this friend.
Decide if you feel good after interacting with this friend.
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Reflect on your friend's trustworthiness.
Reflect on your friend's trustworthiness.
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Ask yourself if the friendship is one-sided.
Ask yourself if the friendship is one-sided.
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Decide if the friendship is worth keeping.
Decide if the friendship is worth keeping.
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Ask to have a talk.
Ask to have a talk.
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Get straight to the point.
Get straight to the point.
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Focus on your own feelings without blaming.
Focus on your own feelings without blaming.
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Give the person an opportunity to respond.
Give the person an opportunity to respond.
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