How to Set Boundaries with a Clingy Person Recovering from Abuse

Beginner 45 min 13 steps 24257 views Rating: 3.5/5 Published: 2026-05-10

Realize that boundary-setting promotes self-love and respect.. Identify what you like and don't like about this relationship.. Figure out when the lines were crossed in this relationship.

Start Playback
E
Author

Steps

1

Realize that boundary-setting promotes self-love and respect.

Step 1

Realize that boundary-setting promotes self-love and respect.

2

Identify what you like and don't like about this relationship.

Step 2

Identify what you like and don't like about this relationship.

3

Figure out when the lines were crossed in this relationship.

Step 3

Figure out when the lines were crossed in this relationship.

4

Learn about yourself.

Step 4

Learn about yourself.

5

Communicate kind but firm boundaries.

Step 5

Communicate kind but firm boundaries.

6

Use "I" statements to minimize fault-finding.

Step 6

Use "I" statements to minimize fault-finding.

7

Emphasize your love for the person.

Step 7

Emphasize your love for the person.

8

Describe the consequences of boundary violations.

Step 8

Describe the consequences of boundary violations.

9

Follow through on consequences.

Step 9

Follow through on consequences.

10

Inform your loved one of the importance of boundaries.

Step 10

Inform your loved one of the importance of boundaries.

11

Assist your loved one in identifying and setting clear boundaries.

Step 11

Assist your loved one in identifying and setting clear boundaries.

12

Encourage them to share their boundaries with others.

Step 12

Encourage them to share their boundaries with others.

13

Be patient and empathetic.

Step 13

Be patient and empathetic.

View as Slideshow

Rate This Guide

★ ★ ★ ☆ ☆ 3.5/5
3

Comments (0)

No comments yet. Be the first to share your thoughts!