How to Stop Self Pity

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Learn when a downward spiral is starting.. Face your feelings.. Take a few minutes to breathe deeply.

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1

Learn when a downward spiral is starting.

Step 1

Learn when a downward spiral is starting.

2

Face your feelings.

Step 2

Face your feelings.

3

Take a few minutes to breathe deeply.

Step 3

Take a few minutes to breathe deeply.

4

Forgive yourself for your mistakes.

Step 4

Forgive yourself for your mistakes.

5

Write yourself a reminder.

Step 5

Write yourself a reminder.

6

Think about the situation as an opportunity to grow.

Step 6

Think about the situation as an opportunity to grow.

7

Avoid situations that make you feel bad about yourself.

Step 7

Avoid situations that make you feel bad about yourself.

8

List your strengths and achievements.

Step 8

List your strengths and achievements.

9

Find a confidence role-model.

Step 9

Find a confidence role-model.

10

Focus on hygiene and physical activity.

Step 10

Focus on hygiene and physical activity.

11

Eat a healthy diet

Step 11

Eat a healthy diet

12

Get enough sleep.

Step 12

Get enough sleep.

13

Spend some time on your hobbies.

Step 13

Spend some time on your hobbies.

14

Practice gratitude

Step 14

Practice gratitude

15

Do something helpful to others.

Step 15

Do something helpful to others.

16

Start your day with some positivity.

Step 16

Start your day with some positivity.

17

Keep complaining to a minimum.

Step 17

Keep complaining to a minimum.

18

Praise yourself for your successes.

Step 18

Praise yourself for your successes.

19

Reframe negative thoughts in a positive way.

Step 19

Reframe negative thoughts in a positive way.

20

Focus on the present moment.

Step 20

Focus on the present moment.

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