How to Become Outgoing if You Are Shy

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Determine how your shyness works.. Keep a dated journal.. Watch for isolating habits.

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Steps

1

Determine how your shyness works.

Step 1

Determine how your shyness works.

2

Keep a dated journal.

Step 2

Keep a dated journal.

3

Watch for isolating habits.

Step 3

Watch for isolating habits.

4

Reframe your perspective.

Step 4

Reframe your perspective.

5

Seek situations that require social interaction.

Step 5

Seek situations that require social interaction.

6

Set challenging yet realistic goals.

Step 6

Set challenging yet realistic goals.

7

Repeat experiences that you like.

Step 7

Repeat experiences that you like.

8

Make up excuses to talk to people.

Step 8

Make up excuses to talk to people.

9

Establish a reward system.

Step 9

Establish a reward system.

10

Get a friend to help.

Step 10

Get a friend to help.

11

Think of activities you can do that are a little comfortable to start with.

Step 11

Think of activities you can do that are a little comfortable to start with.

12

Find the right professional to talk to.

Step 12

Find the right professional to talk to.

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