How to Cope with Vaginismus

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Take painful sex seriously.. Note other problems with vaginal penetration.. Pay attention to other muscle spasms.

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1

Take painful sex seriously.

Step 1

Take painful sex seriously.

2

Note other problems with vaginal penetration.

Step 2

Note other problems with vaginal penetration.

3

Pay attention to other muscle spasms.

Step 3

Pay attention to other muscle spasms.

4

Evaluate your avoidance of sex.

Step 4

Evaluate your avoidance of sex.

5

See a doctor.

Step 5

See a doctor.

6

Rule out other conditions.

Step 6

Rule out other conditions.

7

Get a diagnosis.

Step 7

Get a diagnosis.

8

Consider the role of anxiety.

Step 8

Consider the role of anxiety.

9

Recognize underlying beliefs about sex and sexuality.

Step 9

Recognize underlying beliefs about sex and sexuality.

10

Understand the role of past experiences.

Step 10

Understand the role of past experiences.

11

Know that relationship difficulties may contribute.

Step 11

Know that relationship difficulties may contribute.

12

Be aware that medical conditions and medications may play a role.

Step 12

Be aware that medical conditions and medications may play a role.

13

Acknowledge the potential role of reproductive milestones.

Step 13

Acknowledge the potential role of reproductive milestones.

14

Accept a possible lack of apparent cause(s).

Step 14

Accept a possible lack of apparent cause(s).

15

Try counseling.

Step 15

Try counseling.

16

Ask about exposure therapy.

Step 16

Ask about exposure therapy.

17

Find a physical therapist.

Step 17

Find a physical therapist.

18

Do Kegel exercises.

Step 18

Do Kegel exercises.

19

Consider at-home vaginal dilators.

Step 19

Consider at-home vaginal dilators.

20

Take sexual activity very slowly.

Step 20

Take sexual activity very slowly.

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