How to Act When Your Significant Other Finds Out You Self Harm

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Find a quiet, private place to talk.. Explain why you self harm.. Answer any questions your significant other might have.

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Find a quiet, private place to talk.

Step 1

Find a quiet, private place to talk.

2

Explain why you self harm.

Step 2

Explain why you self harm.

3

Answer any questions your significant other might have.

Step 3

Answer any questions your significant other might have.

4

Respond calmly if your partner gets angry or fearful.

Step 4

Respond calmly if your partner gets angry or fearful.

5

Stay open and honest with your significant other moving forward.

Step 5

Stay open and honest with your significant other moving forward.

6

Let your significant other know how you are doing day to day.

Step 6

Let your significant other know how you are doing day to day.

7

Try not to hide your self harm from them.

Step 7

Try not to hide your self harm from them.

8

Accept encouragement and support from your significant other.

Step 8

Accept encouragement and support from your significant other.

9

Join a support group for those who self harm.

Step 9

Join a support group for those who self harm.

10

Talk to a counselor or a therapist.

Step 10

Talk to a counselor or a therapist.

11

Speak to your doctor.

Step 11

Speak to your doctor.

12

Seek immediate assistance for your issue, if necessary.

Step 12

Seek immediate assistance for your issue, if necessary.

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