How to Figure Out Why an Autistic Person Is Upset

Intermediate 15 min 12 steps 12765 views Rating: 3.7/5 Published: 2026-04-09

Ask what's wrong.. Check if they're hurt or sick.. Look for sources of sensory pain.

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1

Ask what's wrong.

Step 1

Ask what's wrong.

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Check if they're hurt or sick.

Step 2

Check if they're hurt or sick.

3

Look for sources of sensory pain.

Step 3

Look for sources of sensory pain.

4

Think about whether they're trying to tell you something.

Step 4

Think about whether they're trying to tell you something.

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Consider social conflict and pressure.

Step 5

Consider social conflict and pressure.

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Think about whether they could be hungry or tired.

Step 6

Think about whether they could be hungry or tired.

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Think about if they might be afraid of something that has to happen soon.

Step 7

Think about if they might be afraid of something that has to happen soon.

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Consider whether bad memories could be involved.

Step 8

Consider whether bad memories could be involved.

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Keep in mind that you're allowed to be upset.

Step 9

Keep in mind that you're allowed to be upset.

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Ask the autistic person about it afterwards (if possible).

Step 10

Ask the autistic person about it afterwards (if possible).

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Talk to a therapist, special ed teacher, parent, or other person who works with

Step 11

Talk to a therapist, special ed teacher, parent, or other person who works with autistic people.

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Ask autistic adults.

Step 12

Ask autistic adults.

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