How to Bring Severe Social Anxiety Under Control

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Assess the cognitive distortion.. Ask yourself for the evidence.. Identify your negative automatic thoughts.

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1

Assess the cognitive distortion.

Step 1

Assess the cognitive distortion.

2

Ask yourself for the evidence.

Step 2

Ask yourself for the evidence.

3

Identify your negative automatic thoughts.

Step 3

Identify your negative automatic thoughts.

4

Challenge and replace the negative thought.

Step 4

Challenge and replace the negative thought.

5

Focus on your surroundings.

Step 5

Focus on your surroundings.

6

Find a comfortable place to sit.

Step 6

Find a comfortable place to sit.

7

Place one hand on your chest and the other hand on your stomach.

Step 7

Place one hand on your chest and the other hand on your stomach.

8

Take a deep breath in.

Step 8

Take a deep breath in.

9

Slowly release the breath.

Step 9

Slowly release the breath.

10

Repeat the cycle four more times.

Step 10

Repeat the cycle four more times.

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Determine whether you feel safe trying exposure therapy on your own.

Step 11

Determine whether you feel safe trying exposure therapy on your own.

12

Make a list of ten activities that cause you to feel anxious.

Step 12

Make a list of ten activities that cause you to feel anxious.

13

Rank the activities from least anxiety-provoking to most anxiety-provoking.

Step 13

Rank the activities from least anxiety-provoking to most anxiety-provoking.

14

Rehearse the least anxiety-provoking activity mentally.

Step 14

Rehearse the least anxiety-provoking activity mentally.

15

Expose yourself to the activity.

Step 15

Expose yourself to the activity.

16

Repeat this process.

Step 16

Repeat this process.

17

Recognize what triggers your anxiety.

Step 17

Recognize what triggers your anxiety.

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Take note of what you are doing when you are feeling the most anxiety.

Step 18

Take note of what you are doing when you are feeling the most anxiety.

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Prepare for anxiety-provoking events in advance.

Step 19

Prepare for anxiety-provoking events in advance.

20

Find supportive social environments.

Step 20

Find supportive social environments.

21

Consider starting therapy.

Step 21

Consider starting therapy.

22

Take your medication consistently.

Step 22

Take your medication consistently.

23

Join a support group.

Step 23

Join a support group.

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