How to Stop Enabling an Alcoholic

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Don't consume alcohol with the person.. Don't give the person money.. Stop lying and making excuses for the person.

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Don't consume alcohol with the person.

Step 1

Don't consume alcohol with the person.

2

Don't give the person money.

Step 2

Don't give the person money.

3

Stop lying and making excuses for the person.

Step 3

Stop lying and making excuses for the person.

4

Let some of the natural consequences take place.

Step 4

Let some of the natural consequences take place.

5

See the alcoholism for what it is.

Step 5

See the alcoholism for what it is.

6

Educate yourself about alcoholism.

Step 6

Educate yourself about alcoholism.

7

Believe that the person has the capacity to change.

Step 7

Believe that the person has the capacity to change.

8

Resist the idea that you are responsible.

Step 8

Resist the idea that you are responsible.

9

Verbalize your boundaries.

Step 9

Verbalize your boundaries.

10

Anticipate a negative reaction, but don't give in.

Step 10

Anticipate a negative reaction, but don't give in.

11

Address caregiver burnout with self-care.

Step 11

Address caregiver burnout with self-care.

12

Join a support group.

Step 12

Join a support group.

13

See a counselor for codependency.

Step 13

See a counselor for codependency.

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